Finding Faith in Contradictions: Lessons from the Syrophoenician Woman and the Spiritual Dog (Hog)

Finding Faith in Contradictions: Lessons from the Syrophoenician Woman and the Spiritual Dog (Hog)

December 12

In the story of the Syrophoenician woman's encounter with Jesus, we witness a powerful lesson in faith and persistence. This woman approached Jesus, hoping that He would heal her demon-possessed daughter. However, the apostles or disciples around Jesus initially tried to rebuke her, telling her that what she asked for was not meant for her but for the children of God. This situation reflects the words of Jesus in Matthew 7:6, where He advises not to cast pearls before swine, suggesting discernment in the distribution of spiritual blessings.

Even Jesus seemed to challenge her faith by likening the children of God to the children's bread and referring to her as a dog. This interaction is reminiscent of Matthew 15:26-27, where Jesus states, "It is not right to take the children's bread and toss it to the dogs." However, the woman's response displayed an unwavering faith that overcame the apparent offense. She cleverly replied, "Yes, Lord, but even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their master's table" (Matthew 15:27).

Jesus, moved by her unwavering faith, granted her request, saying, "Be it done unto you" (Matthew 15:28). In this moment, Jesus commended her for her great faith, demonstrating that even in situations where it seems like what we seek is not meant for us, faith can unlock the blessings we desire. This story reminds us of the biblical admonition not to cast our pearls before swine. It may seem contradictory, but there's a faith perspective we can glean from it. One can choose to become a "spiritual hog," a term that might appear paradoxical. A prime example of this spiritual “hog” hunger can be found in Mary, the sister of Martha and Lazarus. Mary desired nothing more than to sit at the feet of Jesus and worship Him. When Martha objected, Jesus affirmed Mary's choice, emphasizing that her act of worship was the greater thing (Luke 10:38-42).

In life, we often encounter situations that seem contradictory or unfavorable. However, it's possible to find faith even in such circumstances. David's declaration that even if he made his bed in hell, he would find God there illustrates this point (Psalm 139:8). It's about how we choose to perceive life's challenges and trials. Consider the analogy of a stable filled with manure. One person might recoil from the sight and smell, wanting nothing to do with it. Another, however, sees the potential value because there's a horse in there. The perspective we choose can greatly impact our faith and outlook on life. Even when faced with a resounding "no," we can find a resounding "yes" in our faith.

God's promises to us are rooted in affirmation and positivity. He offers us His "amen" and "yes." In His Word, God presents us with choices between life and death, encouraging us to choose life (Deuteronomy 30:19). This perspective invites us to always seek the good in every situation, no matter how contradictory or challenging it may seem. Consider the classic example of a glass of water filled to its midpoint. One person may view it as "half empty," emphasizing the loss or scarcity. Meanwhile, another sees it as "half full," focusing on the remaining abundance. Our perspective can either limit or expand our faith and hope.

In essence, God appreciates the perspective that allows us to find goodness and faith in situations that may initially appear unfavorable. Through the story of the Syrophoenician woman, the concept of becoming a "spiritual hog," and various analogies, we are reminded that faith can thrive even when faced with contradictions. As we cultivate a faith-filled perspective, we can continue to discover God's blessings, grace, and goodness in unexpected places, ultimately strengthening our relationship with Him.